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Social etiquette is not a derogatory term, for example: Visiting sick relatives, giving money directly Those who know how to show weakness are all smart people You can take some losses, but don't suffer in silence Don't easily tell others about your past Good at playing dumb, actually clearer in mind than anyone Don't meddle in others' business, don't lose temper easily People with overly sweet mouths, try not to get too close Those who hurt you the most are often the ones you trust the most In the workplace, don't reveal your true workload Nod more, speak less… ​​​

Many people think that once someone climbs to a high position, they will want to take revenge, settle scores, and trample on those who once looked down on them. But in reality, when you truly reach that position, your mindset changes. Because when the gap is truly widened, you realize that the other party no longer even qualifies to be your "opponent." People only harbor hostility towards threats close to themselves, not towards someone who can no longer affect them, so they don't continue to invest emotions in them. Therefore, in reality, those who are most likely to attack and trample on each other are often not people with huge gaps, but those who are "about the same." So you will find: the weak like to argue about right and wrong, those close to each other like to trample on one another, while those who have truly pulled ahead tend to feel a kind of "compassion after seeing." In fact, those who are truly many levels above you are often more tolerant. Because they understand that many people's cognition, mindset, and circumstances inherently determine that they can only live that way.

Why hasn't anyone talked about global warming these past two years? Because the biggest problem in recent years has been global warming

After four years in society, I've summarized 8 hard-earned truths: 1. Try to live alone 2. No friends in the workplace 3. Always underreport your salary 4. Don't overshare your private life 5. Try to play dumb 6. Ensure enough sleep 7. Continuously improve yourself 8. Learn English well + keep fit2020 If I had known earlier, I would have avoided many detours.

I will always admire those who are excellent yet humble, who clearly have the ability to outperform others but show no sense of superiority, gentle to people like the evening breeze, firm and decisive at work, and gentle and modest when interacting with others. ​​​

Having someone to help you is your luck; having no one to help you is a fair fate. No one should do anything for you; life is your own, and you must be responsible for yourself.

Seeing Through Human Nature 1. Never try to change anyone, including your children, partner, siblings, or parents. Often, the more you do for others, the more they dislike you. 2. Help those who are willing to help themselves, assist in emergencies but not in chronic poverty. Violating this principle of human nature means the people you help will not be grateful and will keep demanding more from you. 3. When you feel there is no one to rely on, that is the moment you need to awaken. Most awakenings come through painful realizations.

The biggest deception in life is trading your golden years for a depreciated old age. Society constantly instills the idea of enduring hardship first and enjoying sweetness later, making people sacrifice their peak decades of physical strength, perception, and creativity for a vague sense of security in old age. The passions, impulses, and vivid experiences of youth are irreplaceable; no amount of material wealth or money in old age can buy back the sensory and spiritual freedom of your golden years.

If you don't have any advantages, be friends with rich people and hang out together. You don't need to pretend you know anything; instead, genuinely express your inexperienced side. This is often the emotional value they need the most. ​​​

Always look forward and believe that life can suddenly get better. Remember, whether it's spilled milk, a lost lover, or temporary friendships, these are just scenery along the way and not worth blaming your once sincere self for. Stepping in shit and taking detours in life are normal; just keep moving forward. The heavens will rechart the course for you.