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The biggest deception in life is trading your golden years for a depreciated old age. Society constantly instills the idea of enduring hardship first and enjoying sweetness later, making people sacrifice their peak decades of physical strength, perception, and creativity for a vague sense of security in old age. The passions, impulses, and vivid experiences of youth are irreplaceable; no amount of material wealth or money in old age can buy back the sensory and spiritual freedom of your golden years.

If you don't have any advantages, be friends with rich people and hang out together. You don't need to pretend you know anything; instead, genuinely express your inexperienced side. This is often the emotional value they need the most. ​​​

Always look forward and believe that life can suddenly get better. Remember, whether it's spilled milk, a lost lover, or temporary friendships, these are just scenery along the way and not worth blaming your once sincere self for. Stepping in shit and taking detours in life are normal; just keep moving forward. The heavens will rechart the course for you.

Many relationships, if you don't mess them up, they still can't be kept. Sometimes, because you didn't mess them up in time, it turns into a big problem later, so don't worry about any relationship having issues. Relationships that can continue will get through problems, and for those that can't continue, messing them up in time is also a good thing. ​​​$BTC

Learned a new term today: the curse of knowledge It means: Once you understand something, it becomes very hard to grasp what it feels like for those who don’t understand. After reading it, I instantly realized how accurate this term is! ​​​

The real torment of trading has never been the market itself. It's that you see two versions of yourself within the same body. One self is very clear-headed. He knows the trend requires patience, knows position sizing must be controlled, knows the market won't change direction because of your anxiety. The other self is like fire. He craves to recover losses, craves to prove himself, craves to turn fate around in a single market swing. So every day you experience an internal battle. Sometimes you win. You resist the impulse, watch the market play out, and feel calm inside. Sometimes the demon wins. You enter early, go heavy on positions, delay stop losses, and afterward you clearly know you weren't trading—you were being led by desire.

Frequent monitoring of the market often occurs among ordinary traders, especially beginners and those still feeling lost in the trading world. They tend to be driven by emotions, focusing on technical aspects, chasing current or short-term trades, always eager to cash out, and unable to endure the psychological toll of market fluctuations, dreaming of getting rich overnight every day. The funds of these ordinary retail investors generally keep shrinking because frequent market watching and trading endlessly exploit human weaknesses, leaving no time for rest or adjustment. They become exhausted, their weaknesses magnified indefinitely, and their minds burdened with stress indefinitely until one day they collapse—like a constantly tightened elastic band that inevitably snaps after a long time.

When you exercise, you feel weaker, but in reality, you are getting stronger; when you are learning something new, you feel stupid, but you are actually becoming smarter. So when you are improving, you will definitely become vulnerable first, and this moment of vulnerability is actually a very important moment of progress. ​​​

Many "big shots" during their low periods don't seem to be "diligently striving" in the usual sense; instead, it looks more like a long-term hibernation. In fact, they are not "not working," but rather protecting their "cognitive bandwidth." Because once someone is trapped in high-pressure repetitive work for a long time, they quickly degrade into "only solving immediate problems"; the brain loses the ability to perceive long-term structures. And truly significant matters are often not achieved through sheer physical effort, but through: judging trends; observing human nature; understanding situations; accumulating cognition over time; and waiting for the critical moment. So many people, looking back later, realize that the most terrifying aspect of exhausting physical labor at the base level is not just fatigue. It is that it slowly erodes a person's thinking ability, imagination, patience, and ambition.

Zhenyun said: "What are the most degrading behaviors for a man: 1. Being timid when meeting important people. 2. Feeling inferior when seeing beautiful women. 3. Acting awkward at grand occasions. What should a man ideally be like: 1. If money is lost, it can be earned again. 2. If friends are lost, new ones can be made. 3. If love is lost, new relationships can be pursued. 4. If a job is lost, another can be found." ​​​